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Book Review | If I Stay by Gayle Forman

Book Review | If I Stay


“Mia had everything: a loving family, a gorgeous, adoring boyfriend, and a bright future full of music and full of choices. Then, in an instant, almost all of that is taken from her. Caught between life and death, between a happy past and an unknowable future, Mia spends one critical day contemplating the one decision she has left—the most important decision she’ll ever make.

Simultaneously tragic and hopeful, this is a romantic, riveting and ultimately uplifting story about memory, music, living, dying, loving.”


I was really looking forward to reading this book and finally purchased it from Target.  I thought I would cry while reading the book, but nothing ever came.  The story was great, but it didn’t have enough emotion for me and I didn’t really relate to the characters who all seemed to be these hipster music people to me.

Even though I wasn’t fond of the personalities of the characters, I did enjoy the overall message of the book (or at least what I thought was the message).  Never take the small things for granted.  Seeing as I have lost two very important people in my life, I do miss the small things.  Like watching Friends with my mother.  That seems like something very insignificant, but now that I can’t share that time with her I really miss it.

While Mia is trying to decide whether to move on or stay she thinks about a lot of things we take for granted, like spending time with family, friends, and significant others.  Essentially, when you’re time comes you don’t care what you did, but who you shared your life experiences with.  At least that’s what I will think about.

If Mia really could decide to live or die, she’d have to come to terms with the people closest to her being gone.  I’m not sure if I would decide to stay if I’d be an orphan and my young brother was gone. It would be really hard to cope with that kind of loss.

Now, I’m completely biased with my next comment, but I didn’t feel that there was enough of a connection between Mia and her boyfriend.  There wasn’t a lot of romance between these two characters and I felt like there could have been more to it.  But that’s just my hopeless romantic side talking.

Overall, If I Stay is a good book, but it didn’t live up to my expectations and sometimes I set those expectations too high.


“For the first time, I can sense how fully agonizing staying will be.  But then I feel Adam’s hand.”



Gayle Forman is an award-winning author and journalist whose articles have appeared in such publications as Jane, Seventeen, Glamour, Elle, and The New York Times Magazine, to name just a few. She lives in New York City with her husband and daughter.

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Publishing Company: Dutton, Penguin Group

Release Date: April 2, 2009

Genre: Young Adult

Upcoming Book Review | If I Stay by Gayle Forman

I purchased this book during one of my trips to Target.  I had been wanting to read it since it was getting good reviews and I’ve been wanting to see the movie.  I refuse to watch the movie before reading the book.  Anyone else agree?

Well, this is being added to the list of book reviews I need to catch up on.  Wedding planning is in full swing, so book reviews have been pushed back.  The fiance and I just sent out the save-the-dates and we have our menu tasting this Saturday.  I’m really excited to try the food that we will have at our wedding, plus I just love good food.

So for now, here’s a brief description of the book:

“In the blink of an eye everything changes. Seventeen ­year-old Mia has no memory of the accident; she can only recall what happened afterwards, watching her own damaged body being taken from the wreck. Little by little she struggles to put together the pieces- to figure out what she has lost, what she has left, and the very difficult choice she must make. Heartwrenchingly beautiful, this will change the way you look at life, love, and family. Now a major motion picture starring Chloe Grace Moretz, Mia’s story will stay with you for a long, long time.”






If you’ve read this already, let me know what you think.

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