On most Tuesday evenings you will find me sitting in a USC picnic chair, ebook in hand, watching my fiance play softball. Yes, there are times when I want to stay home and read in bed or work on my blog, but that’s part of the balancing act right? I have to find time to read, write, and spend time with the people I love, especially my future husband.
I’m very lucky that my fiancé is supportive of my writing ambitions because I spend a lot of time doing it. Sometimes I have to consciously tell myself, “Hey, you’ve been doing this for a few hours, now it’s time to watch a show with your fiancé”.
There are times when I find it difficult to do everything. I still hold a day job during the week and that takes up 40 hours. I read books to review and I’m continuously working on other things to post (like this one). I also need to find time to go to the gym, that’s about 1-2 hours per day, 5 days per week. I play softball and that takes up to 3 hours per week.
My fiance is the most important thing I need to factor into everyday. There are nights when I say I have to catch up on posts and he’s ok with it. He understands that I love writing and reading. He supports my dreams and knows that the hard work I’m putting in will pay off. When I am writing in the evening, he makes dinner and does the dishes…what an amazing fiance I have!
But there are the days I feel bad because I spent almost no time with him. Those are usually the days I go to work, go to the gym, take a shower, write, and read a bit. Seriously, 24 hours in one day is not enough!
Oh and I can’t forget about our wedding we need to plan. We are a little over 6 months away from the big day and there’s still tons to do. I’m sure that I will be pulling my hair out soon.
I love everything I do, otherwise why would I do them, but it’s a tough job fitting everything in and sometimes I have to sacrifice doing one thing for another.
I don’t like the idea of having to make a schedule for my entire day, but at some point I might have to. There’s always something to do and somewhere to be that a little more structure won’t hurt.
Does anyone else have to constantly balance life, books, and blogging? I know there must be. What do you find the most difficult thing about balancing everything?
Oh…and this is my 100th post! Yay!